Last week I wrote an article about our
local State's Attorney's legal opinion that so-called “happy
endings” don't count as prostitution given how Vermont statutes
define “prostitution.”
When reporting the news, you have to present to the reader a clear
picture if what's being talked about, but that can be difficult when
the subject matter is X-rated and your publication is PG-13. In this
case, the crux of the story was a specific type of sex act, namely
“happy ending massages” as they're called. I had approval to
print “hand job” if needed, but I was able to avoid using that
phrase. “...contact between one person’s hand and another’s
genitals” is what we went with, which makes it pretty clear what's
being talked about without being too lewd.
I bring this up because this is not the
first time I've been confronted with this problem. A few years ago a
teenager was charged in criminal court after he allegedly behaved
lewdly in front of a younger child. I can't find a link to the
original article, but the alleged act was something of a nature we
wouldn't print. I wrote “lewd act” or something similar and left
it to the reader's imagination.
And that's the problem I see with being
vague. People's imaginations can take “lewd act” to all sorts of
places, many I'll bet are worse than what actually was alleged to
have happened. I've always felt that some level of specificity, even
if disturbing, is better than nebulous suggestions. That said there
certainly is a limit to the level of detail that should be provided
and that's the kind of thing my colleagues and I discussed Friday
afternoon when the “happy ending” article was written.
The problem we ran into with “hand
jobs” is there's no polite term for it that really works. You could
say “manual stimulation” I suppose. As opposed to automatic
stimulation? According to an online dictionary, a secondary
definition for masturbation would have fit, but when most people read
that word they think of something else entirely.
We've printed “oral sex” in the
recent past as part of a series of articles that garnered a lot of
feedback from the community, and while I didn't write the bulk of
them I did receive a prominent Benningtonian's opinion on our use of
the phrase. He didn't care for it. To loosely paraphrase/misquote
him, “We all know what prostitution is.”
Do we?
pros·ti·tu·tion
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Noun
The practice or occupation of engaging in sex with someone for payment.
yes what he said
ReplyDeleteYes...exactly what he said..
ReplyDeleteto not be able to prosecute these people isa travesty.
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